What do we really know about the female orgasm? Is it more vaginal or clitoral? This question is always topical and no one knows how to answer it completely. In reality, everything is more complex than what is said and there are several theories about orgasm.
What is certain is that the clitoris is at the center of pleasure. His glans, which is exterior, corresponds to the glans of the penis. It is therefore, in women, the most erogenous area of the body and the most sensitive to erotic stimulation. Unfortunately, many men seem to ignore it, sometimes totally, sometimes half!
THE CLITORIS, THE CENTER OF PLEASURE IN WOMEN
Let’s say that we can identify three categories of men:
Those who imagine that the most effective stimulations for them are also effective for their partner: they therefore tend to focus on penetration. They make quick and powerful back and forth movements because that is what is most stimulating for them. However, for a woman, it is rarely what gives the most pleasure. Hence the surprise of some young women during their first sexual relations, who may ask themselves: ” Is that what we talk about so much? “;
Those who know that the clitoris is important for a woman: it is an immense progress, yet it is often insufficient. Indeed, these men sometimes think that the clitoris counts but that it is above all a starter intended to stimulate the woman to increase her excitement before penetration. They therefore do not really consider it as a center of pleasure, but rather as an accessory helping pleasure;
Those who understood that the clitoris was as important for a woman as the penis for a man: these men take care of the clitoris, and not only during foreplay.
Even if a woman has clitoral orgasms, her vagina still participates.
SO, VAGINAL ORGASM, DOES IT EXIST OR NOT?
Regarding vaginal pleasure , we know that a third of women can have orgasms caused by the back and forth movements of the penis . It is certainly not a myth! That said, sexologists increasingly think that so-called vaginal pleasures are perhaps obtained by internal stimulation of the deep roots of the clitoris, that is to say the clitoral bulbs surrounding the vagina.
On the other hand, some women have rather clitoral orgasms facilitated by the stimulations inside the vagina. At present, several theories believe that there is only one orgasm, even if it can have different starting points: the glans of the clitoris, its superficial roots or its deep roots, sometimes even the breasts or any other very erogenous zone for a given person.
Either way, even if a woman has clitoral orgasms, her vagina always participates . Indeed, the essence of jouissance, beyond